I agree that it hurts. Hurts BAD. But you CAN do it. You might even be able to have your cake and eat it too.
Besides my CD's, I've been collecting Disney pins since 1992. I probably have close to 5,000 by now. Anyway, when the "pin trading thing" exploded about 2 or 3 years ago, I got swept in and bought 2 (or more) of everything, so I could trade for the ones I wasn't able to get. If you have any idea of how many pins WDW alone releases in a single month, multiply that by 2, and you have an idea of how much extra I was putting on my Amex every month.
Last August, they had a "pin event" wherein if there was ANY chance to get the pins that were limited to 1,000, you had to sleep in the parking lot of TTC. Overnight. In your car. It was hot. It was humid. It was noisy. There was NO chance for sleep. And finally, about 4 hours before the event started, I hit my breaking point I told my then-fiance I wanted to go home because NO PIN was worth that kind of aggravation. And from that point on, not only have I refused to attend ANY WDW pin events, I have also stopped trading. I buy ONE pin of whatever it is. So not only am I not getting the "special edition, only for the pin event" pins, I'm also not getting the ones that I would usually trade for (CM pins, etc.). And yes, it HURT and it took a LONG time to get out of the habit.
HOWEVER...eBay is a wonderful thing. And if you wait 2 or 3 months after a pin is released, the prices go down to normal or just-below-normal (because the market is post-glut). And I'l sure that will be true with those Disney DVD's that you REFUSE to buy from Disney because it's not in letterbox format.
By the way...WDW now charges $25 just to get INTO their pin events every other month. That's no guarantee that you'll get the super-limited-edition pins, mind you...that just gives you the CHANCE to get into the lottery to get them. Just when you think they've figured out every single way to milk people dry, someone figures out another way.
They can keep it.
-Sharon-